From the Scholastic Bookshelf: How to Talk to Your Child About Abuse

Talk to your child about how to speak up when something is wrong.

Jul 27, 2022

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From the Scholastic Bookshelf: How to Talk to Your Child About Abuse

Jul 27, 2022

Whether abuse is physical, verbal or emotional, sexual, psychological, or in the form of neglect, it’s a parent’s duty to protect their child from all harm. This includes educating them to recognize mistreatment and imparting the courage to speak up when they feel uncomfortable or threatened.  

You can use books and news articles to educate your child about abuse. Through stories, you and your child can read about feelings and discuss how characters solve their problems.

For its 100th anniversary, Scholastic spoke with experts to identify a set of books, articles, and tips that make starting a conversation with your child about abuse easier. These resources are part of a broader initiative, called the Scholastic Bookshelf, created for Instagram to raise awareness around contemporary issues affecting children today.

Books Featuring Examples of Abuse for Discussion

Becoming Maria is the true story of Sonia Manzano, best known as “Maria” from Sesame Street, whose 1950s Bronx upbringing was overshadowed by an abusive, alcoholic father. Despite hardship, Manzano clung to her dreams of being an actress. This coming-of-age memoir for middle and high school readers is a story of resilience by an author who has inspired millions through her work.

The novel Furious Thing tracks the explosive energy building within teenager Lexi, whose emotionally abusive stepfather John has her convinced bad things happen when she’s around. A book about breaking free of the limitations others can place on us, this empowering book speaks for the anger abuse victims feel — and how to use that anger to move forward.

 

A True Story of Teens Helping Abuse Victims

We Are Here for You” in Scholastic Choices magazine profiles Teen Link, an organization of nearly 100 volunteers in the Seattle metro area who monitor a confidential telephone and web chat helpline for people ages 13-20. Every night, young people experiencing depression, bullying, substance abuse, or relationship problems can call and get a sympathetic listener on the line.

Launched in memory of a Seattle-based teen murdered by her abusive boyfriend, Teen Link serves its community with the mantra: “Talk it out” — the belief that talking to a good listener can save lives.

“When we have another teen on the other side of the phone, they understand all these unique circumstances that our age group is going through right now. It can be really comforting to know that,” says one volunteer.

Be sure to visit the Scholastic Bookshelf for more resources on abuse and other must-discuss topics. If you’re planning to talk with your child about other complex topics and seek tips or book recommendations, we invite you to visit our Tough Topics hub. You’ll find a wealth of advice from Scholastic editors to help you navigate challenging conversations thoughtfully. Recent topic additions include:

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