From the Scholastic Bookshelf: How to Talk to Your Child About Divorce

These books can help your child find solace during this difficult transition.

Mar 10, 2022

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From the Scholastic Bookshelf: How to Talk to Your Child About Divorce

Mar 10, 2022

Parents separating can be difficult for any family, but these stories about divorce will help kids cope with the transition. If you’re in search of resources to help your child understand the realities of divorce — and, crucially, life after it — there are plenty of places to begin.

For its 100th anniversary, Scholastic spoke with experts to identify a set of tips, articles, and books that make starting a conversation with your child about divorce easier. These resources are part of a broader initiative, called the Scholastic Bookshelf, created for Instagram to raise awareness around contemporary issues affecting children today.

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Stories About Divorce for Intermediate Readers

Kids in elementary school are in a formative place: As they continue learning fundamental skills like spelling and math, they are just beginning to make substantive friendships outside the home. For a child’s perspective on adult decisions they may not understand yet, the following books put words to feelings.

In The Year We Fell From Space, readers meet Liberty, whose world is spiraling over news of her parents’ impending divorce, her dad’s heightened depressive episodes, and aggression from the neighborhood bullies. To distract herself, Liberty draws maps of the stars. When a meteorite falls into her lap, she sees it as a sign she must act. This novel is a lesson in what we can and can’t control, with a positive message about self-empowerment.

Children of divorce can relate to Kristy, whose mom is getting re-married in The Baby-Sitters Club: Kristy’s Big Day and who has enlisted Kristy as bridesmaid. A new stepfather and the challenges of a blended family are the backdrop for this installment of the best-selling franchise

The Swift Boys & Me is narrated by Nola as she observes the fallout of a divorce between the Swifts next door. Nola is best friends with the three Swift boys, and one by one she begins to lose her grasp on those relationships as each boy experiences his own emotional response to the event. It’s a study of grief and the aftermath between divorce and remarriage.

Stories About Divorce for Advanced Readers

Older children tend to be more vocal about their feelings and ask pointed questions about divorce. The frank advice in “Survival Guide to Divorce,” from Scholastic Choices magazine, can be helpful. Here, independent readers will find answers for how to cope with living in different houses (including what to pack for regular back-and-forth trips), how to avoid getting sucked into their parents’ drama, how to get along with new family members, and how to deal with missing newly absent ones.

Relatable fiction can be an aid in troubling times as well. In Notes From the Midnight Driver, 16-year-old Alex is so distraught over his parents’ divorce that he’s driven to commit a crime, which lands him in a senior center doing community service. He’s assigned to Solomon Lewis, a “difficult” elder who will teach Alex life-changing lessons about healing.

Be sure to visit the Scholastic Bookshelf for more resources on divorce. If you’re planning to talk with your child about other complex topics and seek tips or book recommendations, visit our Tough Topics hub. You’ll find a wealth of advice from Scholastic editors to help you navigate challenging conversations thoughtfully. Recent topic additions include:

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